Thursday, April 17, 2014

Philomela Lyman (1882-1919)

Philomela "Millie" Lyman
Philomela Lyman was born in Oak City, Utah, August 30, 1882, the third child of Edward Leo and Mary Maranda Callister Lyman. Her early years were spent in Oak City. She was about six when the family moved to Ogden where she began her schooling. Millie was a good student and always had a desire for education. After she had completed the eighth grad and all that was available at home, she entered the University of Utah. She graduated with a teaching certificate entitling her to teach in the elementary schools of Utah. She taught in Deseret, Oak City and American Fork and was considered a capable and successful teacher.

An opportunity came at this point for Millie to go into nurses training and this she decided to do. In Salt Lake City again she studied and worked at the L.D.S. Hospital, graduating later as a registered nurse. She was employed at the hospital until her marriage.
Philomela Lyman Lovell

Millie led a full and active life being a wonderful mother to Ren's* three children. She was a civic leader and spent time nursing and caring for the sick. Her positions in the Church were many. At the time the Millard Stake was divided she became the first president of the Deseret Stake Y.W.M.I.A.

To Ren and Millie were three children born, but only Edward Lyman Lovell lived to bless their home. Millie died January 15, 1919, of influenza and pneumonia at the birth of her last child. She is buried in the Oak City Cemetery.

SOURCE
Book: “Echoes of the Sage and Cedars” – A Centennial History of Oak City, Utah 1868-1969; Compiled by Margaret W. Roger, p. 379-380.

*Millie was married to Lorenzo Turner Lovell who was born December 2, 1877, to George and Martha Turner Lovell in Oak City, Utah.

Descendancy
Amasa Mason Lyman & Lydia Partridge
Edward Leo Lyman
Philomela Lyman

Karen Finlinson (1964-2006)

Karen Finlinson Savage
Karen was born July 18th, 1962 in Rupert, Idaho to Richard Lyman and LaVon (Williams) Finlinson. She was the sixth child born into family of seven children.

Karen was always a ray of sunshine.  As a very small child she would dance around laughing with a sparkle in her eye and a sense of humor to boot.  She was completely delightful.  She would not only dance on her toes, but walk on her toes.  She loved being a part of things and right in the middle of the action.  She was always moving; always busy doing something and very social.

It was easy for Karen to make friends as she was so fun loving and accepting of people.  As a young girl she seemed to include everyone around her in playing and participating in her brand of fun.

Karen faced, what became her biggest life challenge, at the age of 12. An older brother had been diagnosed with diabetes at the age of 8, and now Karen followed. She had such a bright countenance and outlook on life and she seemed to accept it with a certain ease.

Karen was very active in school and extracurricular activities.  She was 9th grade president.  She had a close group of friends all through her junior high and high school years.  They were highly spirited and just had a lot of fun together.

A high school friend related some of her memories of those times.  She said that Karen "loved student council and school dances. She had a really cool dance step, which she added...was amazing for the 70’s.  We would watch her and try to copy her steps.  We ended up calling the step, right step, left kick, one foot forward as your arms hang at your sides and her shoulders sway, ‘The Finlinson Move.”  She was so funny. During her 9th grade year, her friend also recalled that Karen liked a boy, but when he tried to hold her hand she broke up with him."

Karen has had many real struggles throughout her life because of her health problems that have beset her. Her attitude during her health struggles are exemplified by this story from a friend.  She would come and visit Karen on a regular basis at a very low time of Karen’s life. She was not able to see at this time.  She would throw Karen’s wheelchair in the back of her Datsun convertible and take her for rides.  She took Karen shopping on this particular occasion.  As she pushed Karen through the stores, looking for a pair of new jeans, she would reach out and feel the material on each pair and picked several to try on.  She would ask with each pair, are these cute, and are they cuter than the last pair?  She was truly amazing with her great attitude during her illnesses.

Karen met her husband while in pilot training at Williams Air Force Base.  She had been having health challenges and was on kidney dialysis and had lost a good share of her sight.  Thanks to modern medicine, Karen was able to have an operation that returned her sight.  She and her husband were married in the Mesa Temple on June 9, 1990 and in November of that year, her youngest brother donated to her a kidney, which gave her 13 years of superior kidney function and the opportunity to have two wonderful boys.

The doctors had told Karen to not consider children for at least several years, if at all, but she was blessed to not have the complications that doctors had predicted and all felt that Karen had received another miracle.

Family life in the military provided many unique opportunities and a great support system wherever they went, Little Rock, San Antonio and Dover, Delaware. They made lifetime friendships that they will forever cherish.  Karen’s life away from home was filled with laughter and close friendships, always keeping in contact to dear friends further away by phone.

Karen had always loved home décor, but it was in San Antonio that she was influenced by her trips to Fredericksburg...a mecca of home design right in the hill country of Texas.  Her love of Shabby Chic, white slip-covered furniture, white walls, white furniture and white everything was born.  She had always loved to pour over home magazines, collect fabric samples and was often known for bringing home the whole bolt if she liked it!

In Dover, Karen’s life was filled with trips to the Amish Market, the auction where her and her friends would buy furniture and other salvage yard finds.  She was always helping her friends with decorating and upholstering tips and thrived on making her home a shabby chic showplace.

A career move as an airline pilot made a move west possible and Arizona was the chosen destination.  Being close to family and a support system was definitely the criteria.

Karen always had her thoughts and daily concerns about her health struggles, but as we all know, she was cheerful and able to face her obstacles with optimism. She was very aware of her mortality and would sometimes make comments that would surprise those that didn’t know her well.  Through the years she had critical times when we were left wondering if her time was near. But time after time she rebounded and the Lord blessed her.  All close to her knew that she had at least one, if not many, guardian angels and we all know that Karen has had more than 9 lives!

Karen had signs that her kidney was failing and began researching and looking at transplant options.  She definitely found her home in Salt Lake with a transplant doctor that took a special interest in her.  Her husband was able to give her another kidney and she was listed for a pancreas transplant, which she was able to receive months later.  For a year her pancreas functioned but she began noticing signs of that coming to an end.  She accepted each transition and change in her life with such faith and an attitude of moving forward.  When she got word 8 weeks ago that she was up for another transplant, she did comment that she had been doing so well and felt a bit unsure going into this transplant. But as we all know, Karen was not going to turn down a good transplant, with a perfect match!  She had done so well in the past and we all had faith that the Lord was definitely in charge of her life.

She and her husband flew to Salt Lake where she began her last journey. The doctor and his team  made every move possible to pull Karen through her insuing obstacles.  The nursing staff at LDS Hospital loved and cared for her.  They were all drawn to her and would mention how stoic she was through her trials.
Being a seasoned patient, Karen knew so much about her own health and well-being and she lets her wishes be known.  Every attempt was made to ease her burden and make her comfortable. With her boys calling her the Queen of Comfort, no one takes for granted her need for down pillows, high thread counts, cashmere sweaters to keep her warm in bed, egg crates, soft blankets and lots of hand and foot massages.

Our family feels eternally blessed to have had the opportunity to be at her bedside, to ease her burdens, comfort her spirit and participate in the feeding of our souls at her bedside.  Karen had many hands involved in taking care of her. Heavenly Father and his Son Jesus Christ are very aware of Karen.  Their spirit has attended her and the family. Karen passed away on June 11, 2006 in Salt Lake City, Utah. We are thankful that Karen is a part of our eternal family.

Written by her sister, Diane Finlinson Miller

Descendancy
Amasa Lyman & Lydia Partridge
Edward Leo Lyman
Lydia Lyman
Richard Finlinson 
Karen Finlinson
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Sunday, April 13, 2014

Grant Broberg Monson (1925-1949)

Grant Broberg Monson
A MEMORY, A MONOGRAM AND A SMILE
by Ivie H. Jones

Outside of the family, a wide circle of friends and school mates, and his own Ward and Stake associates, Elder Grant B. Monson was possible not too well known, for he was the quiet, unassuming type. But to the Mexican people, all over the land, he leaves a memory that even time will not erase.

It was not by chance that Elder Monson was called to the Spanish American Mission, nor that the family physician advised that he would be as well off in the mission field as he would be at home.

A kidney disorder, which developed early in life, had greatly curtailed his physical activities, but not his mental achievements. All his life he had dreamed of a mission, and he was glad the call was to the Lamanite people.

His first assignment was in Northern New Mexico; his second to Phoenix, Arizona, and then to Tucson, where the work would be even less strenuous.

In May of 1947, his doctor in Tucson advised that he must be released at once. He was immediately notified by his Mission President that an early release was ready, but Elder Monson declined to accept it. Finally the President was inspired to telephone and suggest that he come into the mission office where he could rest and be under more careful supervision. Then these faith promoting words cam over the wires, "Yes, President I'd love to come in, for I don't want to go home. I believe the Lord still has work for me to do, and that the blessing I received when I was set apart will be fulfilled, and that I will be able to finish my mission." How little he knew then just what work the Lord did have for him to do.

His health improved rather rapidly in the mission home and he was assigned the Office bookkeeper, and then later he was made the Mission Secretary, but for a short period only.

At first, he was reluctant to give up his position as mission secretary for he suspected that he was given the new assignment of Genealogist because of his health, but soon he realized that the job at hand was no task for transient help, for it would take months or possibly years to get such a program properly set up, and in working condition.

He was given help, and the more they worked, the more the spirit of Elijah touched their hearts, and they planned, and they dreamed, and they prayed that the descendants of Lehi, who are not recordkeeping people, might be able to gather the information necessary to continue the Temple work that had now gained such momentum.

With the Temple ceremonies conducted in the Spanish language, there was a general wave of enthusiasm among all Spanish speaking people, and family group sheets were sent to the Index Bureau from everywhere. Soon there were many duplicate sheets, and conflicting information, and it became increasingly more difficult to detect which sheets had gone to the Index Bureau, and which had not. Some means much be devised to prevent these duplication, inaccuracies, and speed up the work. A master record and a central clearing house, where sheets would pass before going to the Index Bureau seemed the answer. Elder Monson readily accepted the idea, and the work of re-checking with the Index Bureau began.

It was then that a decision was made to date and initial all sheets passing through the office. For better than a year, while Elder Monson was head of the Genealogical Department of the office, every sheet that went to the Index Bureau for the first time, or for a recheck, carried initials, G.B.M. Literally hundreds of  these family group sheets were thus marked with his personal monogram, and they stand as a monument to him, and tell a story no pen can write.

These monogrammed sheets tell of happy hours spent in the homes of the members, securing additional genealogical data, or correcting errors. They tell of letters written to patrons, to Mexico, to the Catholic Church, to the county and city courthouses; they tell of pleasant  tours made with the Mission Presidents;
they tell of inspiring days spent in the Mesa Temple doing ordinance work, or copying these ordinances into the Master Record; they tell of delightful associations in the Mission home; they tell of rest periods, of chats about the wonders of the restored Gospel, of his personal desires, of talks on health, human behavior, patriarchal blessings, or of discussions on courtship and marriage; they tell of discouragement when he was forced to rest, but they do not tell of any lack of faith, for while he felt sure he was not long to remain; he never once questioned being able to complete his mission, and he never ceased to smile.

Many have done their share of the establishment of this Mexican Genealogical Clearing House, and many more will make their contributions, and leave their monogram on the family group sheet, for the practice seems worthy of continuance, but the pioneering is over, and out of confusion and experimenting has come order and system.

It was not strange that Elder Monson's last day in the mission field should be in the Mesa Temple. He had previously received his release, but asked permission to meet his parents, Byron C. and Cassie Lyman Monson, in Mesa, Arizona during the Lamanite excursion in October, 1948. It seemed so natural for him to be in the Temple, that no one realized he was released, or remembered that he was scheduled to leave Mesa, that morning at 6 a.m.

It was the concluding day of that spiritual feast, and about 3 o'clock in the afternoon, when the copying of the majority of the sealing ordinances was about completed, that Elder Monson whispered, "Goodbye, I guess you won't need me anymore, so I'll go." Oh Elder, weren't you scheduled to leave this morning at 6, I asked? "Yes, he replied, and my folks are still out in the car waiting for me, but I knew there would be so many sealings done today, and a lot to copy in our records, and I thought you'd need me." A clasp of the hand, a satisfied smile, and a word of warning - Don't let anyone mess up the Lamanite Genealogy," and he was off.

Obituary of Grant Broberg Monson
The Mexican people all over the country will be grieved at news of his passing April 24, 1949, in a Salt Lake City Hospital, at the age of 23. So far as we are concerned, he is not gone, but is merely transferred to another department of the Lamanite Genealogy, for he speaks Spanish fluently, and knows hundreds of their ancestors by name. No, he is not gone - for he leaves a memory, a monogram, and a smile.

* This story was written by Ivie H. Jones and sent to the church magazines after Grant passed away.

Descendancy:
Amasa Mason Lyman & Eliza Maria Partridge
Platte De Alton Lyman
Albert Robison Lyman
Casse Lyman
Grant Broberg Monson